Well yesterday she wouldn't tell me the address of where she was staying. Today I went to my counselor which is in the town that she is in and she met me at his office to take our son for a few hours. Once I got out and called to pick him up, she invited me over to her new house. We then went to dinner as a family. I only talked about our son and all the cool things he had done. She once made a comment that "we" need to fix the doors on the house so he doesn't get out on his own and that "we" need to fix the smoke alarms and make sure the batteries are serviced.
After I dropped her off she told our son goodbye and I just sat in the car and ignored her. She then said well I guess I'll see you later and I said a short "bye". As she walked in front of the car I could see that she was visibly upset. Maybe only two days into this its working. I sure hope so. I want her to come back home so bad, but at this point I will not ask again.