Divorce is tough for all involved. Everyone is hurt. The lawyers are fighting and nothing is gained but legal fees.My wife is as happy as a pig in slop and she has no clue what this is doing to the family. She just thinks I will pay for everything like we are still married. She is in for one big reality check. I am so angry at my wife that I find myself going on long walks just to cool down. I resent her for not trying to work on this marriage. The sad part is she has the issues and does not see the light. I hate my life right now and things are just getting worse. I still can not believe this is happening after knowing someone for 30 years. They say God has a plan but I sure as hell do not see it. Bobby O