You live your life conditionally and you will eventually be a victim of it.
You are in complete denial TG... You are no different than the rest of us. No matter what you want to believe and no matter how hard you try, one can NOT keep giving unconditional love and get nothing back. If they do they are silly. No matter how hard we try, if you are not treated back with some type of love, it goes STRAIGHT into your memory bank. As time goes on those memories keep adding up.
So it is actually quite the opposite of what you say you believe. it is the one who tries to say they are loving unconditionally who will eventually be the victims. (as this thread is pointing out by who is sounding like victims. It is the ones talking about unconditional love that are whining and talking about "just keep on loving them guys".... Someone, somewhere, somehow and someway will try and take advantage of that person. The person who DOES have conditions DOES get what they give. They get back respect because they don't tolerate disrespect. You get back nothing because that is all you require is nothing. So yes, you get what you give so to speak.
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What I believe I meant when I said my vows.
That is what being a man means to me.
So you married your wife and she didn't love you and you didn't care whether she did or not huh? It doesn't matter to you whether she loves you or not?????
Who are you trying to kid? I think you are trying to sound a little self righteous.I am always interested to see men suddenly become so self righteous AFTER their wives leave and who didn't seem to honor and cherish her so awful much before the bomb. Suddenly they start preaching about honor, love and committment when they ignored the wife and let thing go to hell in the relationship and didn't wake up to this "unconditional love" preaching UNTILI the wife wanted out. Now listen to them.
