What does that make you? It makes you someone who has stepped up to the plate and thinks about what's best for herself. Nobody else is going to at this point.
Your H is away on the Mothership and won't be back for some time, if ever. Do what you have to do to take care of you.
I, too, wonder how my H seemed to just flip a switch and no longer loves or cares for me. How he could just leave us for 3 days w/o water because of problems with the well. Let his 2 boys struggle day and night with it. Thank God for some very wonderful friends who helped get it fixed.
