There is no OM, and I have always been kinda a mans man, not much of an affectionate guy. So I guess the issues are that I have been neglecting her, and need to show some love(in a detaching way).
The W has buried herself with her family, our kids and 2 jobs. She has completely kept herself as busy as possible to remove herself from this. Sh ealso says she is not sleeping at all. I do not follow her around or bug her so it cant be me i guess keeping her from sleep.
She says she is paranoid around me, worried about her every move and how I will react. SHe says she has noticed changes in me, but does not believe they will stick, that is my M.O, work on changes and go back to the way it was.
