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Mila,

Welcome home. Sounds like you had a wonderful time!

Your H, sounds like not so much.

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Thank you LS & TG - I had a great time...to be with family was really good for me....you know that they will always love you and be there for you even when nobody else is. I just wish they didn't try to show their love with feeding me to death lol. So much food, wine and schnapps....


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Hi SA,

Good to be back smile


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Just pooping in to say hello and welcome back! Sounds like a wonderful holiday!


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CW - thank you, Holiday was great...but now back to reality frown

Business is really struggling...again a month has gone by with very little new business. H was gone with OW for 2 weeks and nothing happened while I was gone...not sure what he was doing...said that we didn't get any of the jobs we were quoting on....major stress....I'm worried about money.

My GF that was supposed to move in with us temporarily is here...she brought her 2 dogs...that's a bit of an adjustment....trying to train them to stay on the main floor, not to bark at everything, sleep alone downstairs etc.....little crazy right now.

Met with H yesterday for a business meeting....in the last month I only saw him 2x. He is being super nice...trying to be helpful and friendly....I do have my walls up and have a hard time responding to his friendliness....

Last night H invited D for diner to his place...this was the first time he saw her in a month...She said that he'd call her few times when she was in Europe.


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Originally Posted By: Mila
H was gone with OW for 2 weeks and nothing happened while I was gone...not sure what he was doing..
This is what he was doing.
Originally Posted By: Mila
He was cleaning the pool, cutting grass, picking up mail....and by the tell-tell signs...pretty much spending lots of time there, sun tanning, making himself lattes and lunches, bringing his newspapers etc
Why would he work on your business?

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Originally Posted By: courageous wife
Just pooping in to say hello and welcome back! Sounds like a wonderful holiday!


So sorry for my typo here! blush


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LS - yup that's about it....
CW - cute typo smile


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Mila,

Your H just admitted without words that he can't handle the business without you. Big surprise.

CW, I caught that typo and LMAO because it was so cute! I so needed that. Thank you!

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Mila your h is confusing. Big basket of fruit, dinner, sweetie etc. Wow, is he sure he wants ow?


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H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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