Unconditional love

I do believe in it.

Because I have experienced the opposite.

You get what you give.

You live your life conditionally and you will eventually be a victim of it.

Your W may decide she doesn't like the look of your feet and leave...

And you can run away all you want and say well if she doesn't like my feet

then

F@ck her!

You get away from someone...

But

You still have your ugly feet.

No one can take away what you give.

And because you give it your are not harmed by its loss

or

That someone doesn't give it back.

And yes I can live my life that way.

Because I have lived the alternative...

You place your happiness in the hands of another...

and you will never be peaceful.

You will always be the victim of their choices because that is the condition you place on love.

That is just what I have learned.

And

What I believe I meant when I said my vows.

That is what being a man means to me.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am