tired of this

[LRT Land]

Goodman - I wanted to let you know reading your words made me tense up as I could feel your anger and frustration coming through in your post, and I wasn't sitting right next to you! You are always telling me to "let it go." I'm turning that one back on you. Forget the past garbage. Focus on today. Be the type of H you want to be in this R today. Don't let her push your buttons - that has gotten you nowhere.

Yeah - she seems conflicted - but we don't know why. We aren't going to mind read. YOU are going to be the kind of guy you want to be in ANY relationship. That's how you find out if this is the right relationship for you.