It appears that my signature is ALL he wants. After several email go rounds today, he finally came up with a box of old uniforms from Iraq and a file of copies of the kids social security cards & old medical records.
Then signing the agreement came up again. I offered to take the box of uniforms to his son, and mail the records. Then I said I'd look at the damn agreement and show it to my lawyer. After that, he didn't even have anything more to say about the box of uniforms and files. I had to re email him and ask if that was okay for me to take them to his son's house.
I told him I just wanted some peace, and that meant he had to leave me the hell alone. He said he didn't want to fight, and "Oh, thanks for looking at the paperwork". Looking ain't signing.
It all upset me. Even after all I've read about how the MLC'r blames everything on you and rewrites history, the hatefulness is just more than I can take. Made for a very down day.
My friend may get to come home from the hospital tomorrow. They couldn't get all the tumor as it would have involved causing her to have a colostomy bag, and she said she'd rather die on the table, made them promise they wouldn't do it, so they left in 5%.
Wondering if I can spin around what he wants into him signing what I want in the way of an agreement. It doesn't seem we are headed anywhere but to divorce court.
