One life / But we're not the same

[MichelleLT]

Oh, I'm rolling my eyes. For sure! LMAO

Oahu. They are getting married in Honolulu.

It's gonna be my second wedding since the bomb. The first was right after while XH was still living with me. It was the last time we had sex (after the wedding, not at you perverts) until his half-a$$ed reconciliation attempt about 8 months later.

I have avoided them since. It has helped that I haven't had any super close friends get M til now.

I'm sad about the whole thing. It has me thinking a lot about my M and D. I guess I am still mourning my whole concept of M as a life-long commitment, thru better and worse. I'm just so jaded about the whole thing.

I am going to get my buddy something off their registry, but I think I am also giving them a copy of DB with a card telling them I hope they can be committed enough and compassionate enough to never need it.