I would think of it this way, if Ryan wan't disabled it would be up to them if and or when they saw each other. None of that would be up to you. Since he is way past 18 now, I don't see how he could have ever made visitation mandatory. Maybe things are different in Canada. I hope all goes well for you because you so deserve it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
