CW, SA, GAG & M&H Thanks so much for checking on me
I had a great time with my family....in my honor they organized a family reunion at mom's cottage...got to see just about everyone in the family. Also spent a weekend with my brother in the Austrian countryside...lovely time...The whole trip was a bit bittersweet as I had to tell them about H. Didn't tell everyone just my mom and my brother. My mom is of course very upset, worried about me and D & our future and furious with H. She also said that by what I'm describing to her what has been happening with H she feels in her gut that H will "crash and burn" and from her experience these kinds of "mad love affairs" rarely have any future. My brother had similar thing happen to him...his second wife was a habitual cheater...his advice - "forget about the jerk, you deserve better". Well everyone has an opinion.....
While I was gone my husband was coming to the house despite me telling him that he doesn’t need too, that everything is taken care of. He was cleaning the pool, cutting grass, picking up mail....and by the tell-tell signs...pretty much spending lots of time there, sun tanning, making himself lattes and lunches, bringing his newspapers etc. When I came back, there was a big basket of fresh fruit, fresh bread, and dinner ready for us (D & I came back on the same day) with a nice note with a smiley face.....I had a business meeting with him today, where he called me sweetie and wanted to know details about my trip....very confusing.
If he is happy? Who knows.....his girlfriend's husband called me today and told me that there was probably some kind of a disagreement between the two “lovers” after they came from their Paris vacation (GAG you may have a point)....OW's H thinks that she wasn’t talking to my husband, because he kept trying to find her and kept calling her husband’s house to see if she is there (she no longer lives there)...so who knows what’s going on.
I will try to catch up with everyone's treads in the next few days...hope that everyone is going well.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
