Uh oh!! you said the word kat! May god have mercy on you now!
But yes that's what I was told. I hear it on the radio 10 times a day 'bras and p...... 20% off at macy's this weekend' - come to CVS pharmacy and get $2 off p.... liners' LOL!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
As far as your second question: be honest but tactful. You don't want to give her false hope. Let her know that you do have a lot on your plate right now, that you are ok getting together once and a while but you would like to continue to be just friends if that is indeed the case. If not, let her know that too. Nothing worse then hiding under a rock and just hoping the other person will know what is happening!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I only call them panties. In fact, I feel very strange calling them "undies." Undies is just not in my lexicon. I may say underwear but panties is my go-to word. And no, I don't find it deragatory.
Now let's not get our knickers in a bunch! They are underwear, undergarments,panties, undies, etc. I never said the word was appealing. I personally don't like the word woman, I much prefer lady but the world isn't stopping for me. lol
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I agree with Kat about G4 (sorry, Kat, I can't agree about the other thing!).
If you just tell her the truth then maybe you will make a really great friend out of it!
Honestly though, hoping that somebody will pick up on hints when they are (perhaps?) looking at you with expectations or intentions is really not the best idea (IMO).
If you enjoy her company in a platonic way and the two of you have common interests why not just let her know that? Nobody knows what can develop down the road but I see no problem telling her where you are at right now.
OK no cat fights! I swear you ladies/women are so weird! LOL
Ladies is so high-schoolish to me (just my perspective) 'hello layydiezz! would you like to come to my dorm later for some beer with my friends?' as opposed to 'You're a gorgeous woman- I'd love to see you again some time'
Personally I prefer the word girl- afterall you want us to think you're a few years younger than you are?!
Sol, we saw Salt- kick ass!! I wish I had a woman that would avenge me like Angie does...You know an old folklore legend says if you kill a male snake and don't squish its eyes the female snake will travel thousands of miles to hunt you down? Now that's my kinda woman!
I think I'll text G4 back and say: "hey G4, it was fun watching the movie last night, thanks. Can I take a rain check on the next one though? I'd like to go out once in a while as friends but I just have too much on my plate at this moment."
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Sounds good to me! I like the word girl too. Why not just say, You are amazing or You are so beautiful without putting the "woman" on it. Just like I don't see why men have to always pay. I make money too, I am not a helpless woman and I want to be your equal not your subordinate. Let's take turns paying.
Oh, I could get on a roll here, better stop me now.
kat PS, Is this going to hurt me in todays dating arena?
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I am such a wild child! LOL