It IS encouraging. And I do feel more like I'm catching on.
In other news, xh has decided he wants to renegotiate child support since my income has increased. Three months ago he was fine with it all; I think he's leaning on the improved goodwill between us with the new girlfriend to make this move. Cripe--he's already paying less than 5% of his income, which is absurd. What a jerk--like we're living high on the proverbial hog or something.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012