On leaving the hearing I was visibly upset/dissapointed, but said nothing to her. She then calls out to me with a comment-"what? Now you're mad?". Is she really that...out of touch?
Who knows how out of touch she is? Sounds to me like she's doing a little button pushing. Fishing for a bit a drama.
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What a shame that she has made a choice to be this cold non feeling "poor me" victim, who blames everyone else for her unhappiness.
Just because you don't play her game doesn't mean you don't care for her.
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I feel terribly sad to see what she has become, and terribly sad to see where it has left us, me. I am going to do my best to wade through this abyss, but right now it is bleak, and will be for awhile.
Perspective.
You've already been wading through it for a while now. It's tough and I'm not trying to minimize that.
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Simple choices really to forgive, change ones attitude and concentrate on the positive.
Keeping working toward this.
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Such a waste of a productive life and how it robs others of productivity.
It does for a time. It's almost unavoidable. There comes a point in time though where we need to stop allowing ourselves to be robbed.
