Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Thanks Puppy - that makes perfect sense.

Just now got off the phone with her. She asked if I wanted to video chat with S4 and I said yes, she told me to call her when I got off work. I said that works out good because I'm going out tonight.

W: "Who are you going out with?"
M: "I don't know, I'm just going out."
W: "What do you mean you don't know - who are you going out with?"
M: "Will you just stop? I don't know, plans haven't materialized yet"
W: "Fine."

She was clearly agitated. I said that I had to go - she said "Fine" .... and she just say BYE in a agitated tone - no ILY as normal in the past. Clearly that didn't make her happy. I expect to get the full barrage of questions later after I call after work.

This feels weird.

If I want to set BOUNDARIES and TRUST, how should i approach that conversation with her? What should I say? Something along the lines of - "Moving forward, given all the damage that has been done, I'd like to be able to trust each other. I think it would be a good idea if we both independently came up with a list of boundaries that we felt would make us trust each other. Trust is a very important part of our R at this time."

Good?