When your partner acts like they can't trust you. Asks a lot of questions about where you are going and with who, etc. Is usually means they don't trust themselves so they "project" that feeling on to their partner.

Because of her history of unfaithfulness and her PERSONAL issues with RESTRAINT she does not TRUST YOU either.

You need to nip this in the bud by telling her that she either TRUSTS you or she doesnt. With out TRUST you dont have anything.
Which also shows lack of RESPECT. Tell her if she doesn't agree. There is the DOOR.

You really need to SET some STRONG BOUNDARIES of TRUST and RESPECT if you want to have any substantial future.

YOU need to LEAD by example. It is obvious that she is not capable of doing this on her own. ARE YOU??

PMA