Thanks Puppy. It was more of a rhetorical question. From reading your posts over the years I have a pretty good feel for your approach. I have a lot of respect for you and you are one of the people here who really helped me understand the boundaries.

I was referring to the boundaries as being the very thing that might help them - but for sure it helps us and our families. I agree with your position as far as being the one to work to set things right as far as the family is concerned.

I did that work for 2 and a half years. When it was time to stop, I did. Switched gears and now am doing the work to further save myself, build a great life for my kids, move forward.

Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
And why would I want to specify exactly who I was addressing? Is it a little too deep for you to figure out?


I dunno. Maybe because I asked? The drive by shooting comment was in jest. The question was real. I respect both you and robx, and like Puppy I have been helped tremendously by your posts to so many people on this board.

But I also do laugh at posts like the one I quoted. Actually it's not too deep for me to figure out, but I can't speak for the other people here.


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