Well thankfully she backed down and didn't lay blame on the kid. But I guess i am paying the price for standing up to her ( not that i care too much in my current state of mind )
When I see her in this state I cannot believe there is any hope of this M surviving. All I can do is continue to be polite and upbeat.
As this all goes down I really find it strange that she is sooo angry. Initially she said this was because I was trying to hold her hostage ( not sure how ), then because she had to share the same bed ( her choice and no longer happening ) and then because she wanted to get things moving, put the house for sale, tell the kids etc.
Now all these things are done and still angry and barely speaking.
If i had an Affair, was abusive or otherwise hurt her I would understand but this just went from a marriage that seemed like a lot of fun to "I want to be your best friend" to "I hate you" all in the space of 3 months........unbelievable.
The only thing I have done since she dropped the bomb was to continue to enjoy myself without her and let her know that I will give her what she is entitled to financially and that's it. Well and also put my foot down re blaming my S for this.
Funny when i gave her what she supposedly wanted she looks even more miserable. The only thing I can think of is she thought I would crawl away crying when she said she was leaving and i disappointed her there.
Even after reading all I could on the WAW topic I still have no understanding of whats going on in her head and guess I never did.
