It is unbelieveable isn't it? I am sorry you are going through this. I can relate oh so much to your situation. They lash out in pure hate no matter what you do. I would have to agree with braveheart, she is not going to change anytime soon. Her behavior could in fact get worse and more vicious. I am going on my 4th year of this stuff. Protect yourself and your child.
Hugs..
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11