My W sent me an email about the dog barking this morning. She likes to sleep in till late morning, and he disrupted her sleep. One day per week, the dog stays home from daycare to save on expenses. She reluctantly offered to watch him twice per week, but it would make life more difficult. In the spirit of boundary setting, I think I will ignore her email. I'm not sure what she wants me to do about it.
My W accompanied me to a dance lesson last night on the basic footwork in Tango. It was nice connecting with acquaintances in the dance community. We are starting to present to the community as a couple. She had a nice time socializing, and mentioned enjoying a new dance.
She has been putting a fair amount of time regularly into organizing and cleaning the house. She does most of it in the wee hours of the morning, not getting to sleep until very late.
She keeps tapping me on the shoulder about scheduling another trip. We have a weekend trip planned with the dance studio, a trip to Puerto Rico in September, and a trip to a dance convention with the studio in September. I've taken off 11 days from work (the most for me ever in one month). I'm reluctant to take off any more anytime soon. I think she's afraid that she won't be able to take another vacation for a long time, once she starts a new job.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
