Burt,
It sounds like you are taking the high road, and being the leader in your M. We must love our spouses, no matter what, all the way to a better M or D. Who knows what's going on with her?

Did the princess comment have any influence on her? I don't agree with you reading her notebooks and journals. She deserves privacy. This secret could come back to bite you.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching