We did talk for about 2 hours. I did explain the sitch with the house and told her whether we were goingthrough what we are or if things were good, I would still look at giving the house back to the bank.
I let her talk most the time, she told me she met with a L last week and filed yesterday. She said that after I told her I wouldnt stop her on the divorce she said she figured I didnt want M either. Told her I did want the M, but that I wouldnt stop the D.
All in all it was a good talk. We will see how things go from here.
Here is a recent quote from OIN's thread, read it and understand it:
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
Yes an inspiration..
BUT do you understand the dynamics of the exact thing that turned HER around? Do you know when that moment came? Or do you actually believe it was his "hanging in there and not giving up" was what did it? (you are WRONG if you believe that)
It was when he told her AND showed her that he FINALLY understood that no matter what he did that he now realized that she did NOT want to stay married and would never love him again and that he was going to STOP trying to show her how sorry he was and he was going to stop trying to win her back....(and THEN he followed through on that)
THAT was HER turning point. It was when he told her he was giving up winning her back... She THEN wrote him the letter and then told him she wanted to try..
