Welcome to the MLC board. As my bro Grit said this board is more about YOU than about your H. I hope we can be of some help to you.
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I'm at the point of throwing up my hands and saying "Jesus take the wheel"
This ^^^^ IMO is detachment. As Punkin mentioned you need to detach from your H. Detach from his issues. Now is the time for you to really think about you. Along those lines I have a few questions for you.
1) Do you work? 2) What goal do you have for YOU and your kids that DO NOT involve your H? 3) What are you doing to keep your sanity i.e. GALing? 4) Is OP involved? 5) What DO YOU want in your life?
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
