He was definately a better father IN the marriage. Took the kids swimming every day, coached my son's soccer team, etc. Now, he seems to have completely discarded the kids- hasn't seen them in a week, really, and hasn't asked to see them. He didn't even show up to coach the team at the game last night.
I was highly tempted to drive over to OW's house and chew him out over that, but resisted the urge and came home instead.
Me-29 H- 28 Together for 6.5 years 2 kids, ages 9 and 5 D-Day: July 15, 2010.