Originally Posted By: dbs
I know many here feel this same sort of pain that just does not have to happen if different choices were made.


Yes and it is important to remember that they are her choices.

Good to see you back here.

Also

She is in a battle.

Inside her.

You

Are the outward manifestation of her struggle.

You are the one fighting her.

So yes she is going to fight back with all her might against you.

Expect nothing different from her.

From you?

You control that my friend.

You love your wife.

Do you love her enough to love her when she makes choices that hurt herself

and

You?

Love her enough not to have what YOU want returned to you?

How would dbs express that love now?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am