Something thats just crossed my mind reading through other sitches.

H is a very very ambitious man, always has been. I'd say in his life his top priority now ,is to be successful and earn enough money so that he can retire early and enjoy lifes adventures with his riches.

While he has always tried to be the best he can be at his job, I never realised that in the back of his head that this ambition was becoming so intense over the years.

It started to become apparent about 4 years ago (just before we had S).

I'm just a bit worried, because it seems the more ambitious the H, the more likely he is to suffer MLC at points in his life.

So, even if he manages to get through this period, and he returns to his old self, he can still suffer from it again 10-20 years from now!!

I'm not sure I can do this twice frown In fact I'm sure i don't want to do this twice frown

So now I'm feeling a bit odd frown Never felt like this before, thinking about wether getting back together is a good idea frown

Oh dear....going downhill here....thoughts anyone...feel like someone just pulled the rug out from under me!!!

M 31, H 34