In my opinion...true and unconditional love is not exemplified in the simple act of setting our spouse or loved-one free.
It is the act of helping them, and guiding them towards the path that is most conducive to their happiness, without any regard to what that means for us.
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children