Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Well, we could sit hear and debate this all night. In the end it comes down to my decision not to give up. I hear everything you're saying, I really do but I need to do what's best for me. Even if you don't agree with my decision I hope that you will respect my decision to keep fighting.

Sure, she could ask for the S agreement again after the house is sold. Will she? I don't know. If I can't figure out what she's thinking about M then I have no idea how to figure out what she will do one month, two months or more from now. I really haven't had anyone (friends, family, IC, pets, mailman, etc.) tell me to give up. So it's not like I'm just listening to what I want to hear. I've asked for people's advice here all of the time. I don't remember anyone here telling me to quit. Some of the advice has been tough to hear but it's good.

As for how my W is acting/dealing with this, well, I guess everyone is different. I don't like it but it's the reality of what I have to deal with right now. By her own admission two weeks ago she even said that people can change their mind. Was she being manipulative when she said that? Maybe, maybe not. I know people's tendency is to be skeptical when people say things. Are they BSing or not? I don't now for sure. None of us here who are trying to save their M know for sure if what their WAS says is BS or some truth. I think that's why we hang in there, to find out...