Piano....sometimes, YES, life IS that screwed sometimes. The only thing that helped me feel better when I was really low was to think of people worse off than I and then to think of all the good things I had in my life...it was very hard to do, BUT...it did help.

How to say goodbye? Hmmm. I have 2 thoughts:

1)READ him a letter that you have written with all the good, bad and the ugly. I say read because he could delete the email or throw the letter away. I say a letter so that it is organized and you don't forget anything.

2)Make the goodbye quick and to the point: "Thanks for bub, F-you for incredibly difficult life you have given us both. Have fun being free with OW to live your selfish life."

OK maybe not those exact words.
But either short and brief or spell it all out!!!! Those are my ideas.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004