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Why is that remark unpromising?

because we live in a society where like you said .. we want quick fixes. everything is designed to make life easier and for you to do less work. key .. less work.

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Infideltiy is common for a variety of reasons, poor education, insufficient legal consequences, cultural endorsement, the media romanticizes it, etc

i think pop culture has a heavy influence on it. i think pop culture is also responsible for the current views on divorce. every celebrity is divorced, divorcing, cheating, etc. as if it's a social norm.

marry, re-marry, father children with 3 different women. i mean .. it's screwed up.

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Not enough children are educated these days to work for the long term

my h said he didn't think that marriage should be this hard. like dude, marriage IS hard work. so he'd rather be alone and not work on a relationship at all ..