Excellent attitude! It IS just a piece of paper.

On soapbox:
I still like it when the LBS files and takes the sting out of getting the papers served to you. It also takes away their control that THEY decided a D for your R. It shows backbone the LBS files and gives notice that you are no longer a doormat and is the start to gaining back self respect.
Off soapbox.

Plus you can pull the papers whenever you want. You can't do anything but either contest or go with the D when the WAS files. You are just on a new roller coaster called the legal system.

In any event, the post above shows a quick turnaround from how you felt earlier and we are glad to see you looking stronger. Follow the DB, 180, GAL as best you can. Tailor them to fit you and come up with things that are not on the list. Immerse yourself into them and stop thinking/reacting to/about the W.

Continue to be strong!


Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010