REALLY need some help today, Please!

[Allen A]

I try to translate "I wanna leave" into "I would like to see some positive chagnes in our marriage"

And then I go with that... You could argue a lot of infidelity is just as much a cry for help... It's an action to indicate that changes are needed.. GROSSLY unecessary and abusive beyond belief but its an expressio of thought just the same.. at least I think it is in many cases...