Right, I get what you are saying.

I think what really creeps me out is the idea of some guy sifting through profiles of 100's of women sort of picking and choosing. Like how do you know the guy isn't a freak sitting there in his undershorts just looking at women!? It just feels scary to me. Not like I am scared to date but scared of the people. I get you can filter them out but I think the idea of somebody putting tons of women in a "shopping cart" turns me off.

Then I think there are many lovely men on this site that I think are fantastic and they are online dating so really it might be okay.

I will have to ponder this more I guess!