joint counseling session in the morning, need help

[Chuck66]

You keep the house anyway with or without a job!!! If you were a stay at home mom they would not kick you out before a D if final?! The finalized D will make those decisions not her. DO NOT MOVE OUT! If you don't want to sell, then DON'T! Until a court orders you to sell you do not follow orders from your W.

"Inappropriate marital conduct"...they had to put something down. Do not take it personally. Let nothing they do/say effect you! Be strong. Be stoic! Be cool under pressure.

Do not call C and see what you need to do about this with S. There is either a good or a bad R between your S and W. You cannot change that R one bit! Detach and be the best D for your son but stop worrying about things you can NOT control!