To be honest Rob, I don't care about the house the taxes are behind as well as the mortgage. I have about 12k saved up and to get the house current would take 10 of that. I am half tempted to give it to the bank anyway, and move on. W came home from the store put groceries away, and has crawled up to her room with a catalog and shut the door.
I am letting her be. Part of me wants to not catch up on the house, she can't do it on her own. I can at least rent a decent place and make a better environment for the kids. The best she could do is a 2 BR apartment. I don't know if I even want to hire a L. I could probably handle it myself.
I do agree its probably something that she has been planning for a while. Like I said playing me like a fiddle. The paperwork also stated something about anger management and if I am not in a program asked the court to insist I go in one. Such BS.
So I can play hardball and tell her guess what? I am not going to get house caught up, you need to plan on finding a place to move to since I am going to contact the bank and let them know. I don't see anywhere in the court papers that says I have to keep paying on the house or anything like that.
