I am guessing you name the ladies you are courting (37, 31) by their ages. FTR, if one day my future boyfriend names me by my age I hope he lies and says 25 to his buddies smile

I feel like I am getting such an education about men and women and dating here today! So you would consider a fling even though you knew for sure it would be nothing more? I am not judging I really am just curious as to how this all works!

I would be mortified if somebody I was sleeping with was embarrassed of me and did not feel I was fit for public viewing, lol!

I mean, who doesn't like sex? I guess I always think that compatibility, shared values and some commonalities are things to find out first because really, sex is a pretty easy problem to solve, right?

I feel like I am way out of the loop. My friend said to me today I was like Mother Theresa and am thinking that was NOT a compliment, lol! Maybe I am too prudish.

I feel like I am learning about all this interesting dating stuff from a man's point of view... it's all very good!

Good work on the house, sounds like it's a good transition for you!