I guess my first reaction was F her, if this is what she wants she can have it. Emotions, emotions I believe she did this off of emotions, and not really thinking it through. The last few days I have been distant and chipper, which I am sure pissed her off, thinking he doesnt give a sh!t so I will show him?? Like PMA said, its a pissing contest. I have told her its not what I want, and when she gets home I wont bring it up. I will wait a few days and see if she brings it up?
Aside from the "f her" part, your thought about "if this is what she wants she can have it." is exactly right.
If this is what she wants, give it to her. She's been emotional this whole time, up & down, grumpy, moody, angry, sad, then happy.
Don't worry about telling her that a divorce is not what you want, what YOU want is someone who wants to be with you without all this drama and if she's going to act like this, you have your answer.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
