I didn't get to use any of the scripts tonight. Picked H up and he was decent. We did our "30 minute talk" when we got home and he didn't bring up anything negative. Didn't talk about R at all, just discussed our days. Then we ate dinner and he said he was going to play XBox while I studied and said maybe we can watch a movie in a bit. SOOO.... since he was being positive, I didn't hit him with any of the stuff yet. I am going to print some things out though, like you suggested.
I did discover that he purchased the 2 books the FT had told him to read but they're still sitting in a bag untouched. They are books for him though, not for the relationship. Ironically, one is about setting boundaries and the other one about having hard conversations. Not sure if they will do our marriage any good. I'd rather him read what we were already given at the weekend retreat and RR. We'll see.
