I don't think I've ever heard of that kind of visitation being imposed when the child is 31, and you say no financial support being given. If you moved your X would have to take you to court about that if he was so motivated. Most family law attorneys do a one-hour consultation for free; you could go and just meet with an attorney or 2 and get their take on it maybe? Plus, btw the fact he meets with him rarely and often cancels, I would keep track of that too. I can't believe any judge would be in favor of your X...
