Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

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Savingmymarriage,

Don't be embarrassed by the learning process you have been going through. Mine are embarrassing too. I had one of the threads removed. I was in a different place. You seem to be too.

I appreciate you sharing them with me. I admire that you are willing to put them on here.

I think detaching is good, but we all have to do it at our own pace. You are doing what is best in your situation.

I don't think you have failed because you seem to have grown and moved forward at least in the posts you have made to me. That is part of DBing, and you are doing it. That is something to be positive and proud of. You do seem to be finding some inner peace, and this is what I have come to understand about DBing. Give yourself credit for that.

I appreciate you providing me support and helping me in this very difficult period of my life. I am very grateful to you for that.

Keep doing what is best for you!

I will check your threads and try to learn from them.

Thank you very much!