Thank you so much. That is a wealth of information. Sorry I have been away for about a week with work and having to re-connect with my family (mother and sisters).
I am still working on the letter and expect to post it tomorrow, so looking for your feedback. An Update:
H has called numerous times and emailed with thoughts like "Happy Monday", "Happy Tuesday" messages. He tells me he is lonely and not really not liking some of his colleagues because they "complain" all the time. It was one of the things he complained about before he left me and our home. His messages (voice messages left for me at work - I can't change my number at work) seems like he is so sad.
I know I am stil vulnerable, but I am keeping strong and staying dark. He left another message for me today saying he tried calling me on my work provided cell and my desk phone and couldn't reach me, he says he had a long day and wanted to talk. I feel sorry for him is all...:(
Well, it looks like my job may be improving and hopefully it means an increase in pay so that I can begin absorbing more of the house expenses.
I don't have a separation agreement and I want to see how the exposure plays out before I have my L draft an agreeement (legal fees are expensive here!!) if it comes to that point.
Your thoughts?
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
