My H keeps trying to call the house through other people's phones, but I don't answer if I don't know them. He finally called D23 and told her I had to call because he was 'coming down to pick up some stuff' this weekend. I replied by email:
Try to get this through your head. Nothing is leaving this property until a settlement has been reached, and it won't be reached until I am ready. I have an order of protection, I spoke to the Sheriff's office Monday. If you insist on going this route, I'll have my lawyer demand maintainence and displacement, which means if you quit paying on the house, you have to pay for me to live in a similar place. You'll get your divorce, never fear, but bet your ass it will be on my terms. No matter how you try to shape it in your mind, you are the one in the wrong in this marriage, and I didn't do anything but support my husband while he chased his career for 20 years, among other things, and I have the proof to back it up. If there is something in particular you are wanting, let me know, and I'll see that it gets to you. Otherwise, leave me alone, and quit using Rachel.
I know this doesn't sound very DB'ng, but he's been hounding me everyway he can for a week now. Tell me truly fellow posters, how did it sound to you?
