So I am obviously using this thread to vent at the moment...

recap of practical matters:
The apartment is packed up now and on the rental market.
I am at my mothers crammed into a comfortable but small bedroom with bub. We are very well looked after and are welcome as long as I want to stay... I think my mum hopes forever, lol!
WH is all but nearly packed up and ready to leave the country for good.
There have been no discussions about the future in terms of child support or where baby & I will eventually live -- I think this is on hold until WH finds a job and we know where we are at.
I am on maternity leave until Feb 2011 - any time after that my job is waiting for me - I can actually take 2 years mat leave if I wanted (unpaid, of course).
WH is still helping me with my citizenship.
I have enough money thanks to govt assistance to get by living with my folks.