Steve, I hear everything you're saying. Yes, she certainly is into herself but then again aren't most WAWs? Selling the house is also mutually beneficial for me. I won't have to worry about that hassle anymore.

Again, what's my alternative? Give up? Just say that I'm ok with giving up on 19 years together after a measly 9 months? After the crap we went through and how I was during that time? Things I didn't do but should have? What does that say about my love for her? Not very much in my opinion. No, I'm sorry, I can't do that. I will not allow two very difficult years to define our M and who I am. Who knows if this M can be saved but I'm going to work as hard as I can to save it.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch