If you want my advice don't date at all until at least six months AFTER the divorce is final.. if it becomes final at all.
I don't think its a healthy activity for someone to "date" while they are still just separated.. they havne't even dealt with the divorce bomb or gone through that recovery period yet.. how can a person possibly engage in a healthy romantic relationship with anyone else?
This is akin to driving with a fever of 104 just to "get some air"