Originally Posted By: cd
It's a fine line between being "loving" and "pursuing/doormat" but to exude the loving attitude and manner would mean the difference.


Yes it is.

And

I would say to you if you feel like a doormat

If you think you are a doormat...

Then

You are.

This is a process CD and it takes time to heal, attain detachment, recognize compassion and understand...

Until you get there.

You WILL feel like a doormat.

That's why it takes courage.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am