"You and I are OVER. My heart is no longer yours, and hasn't been for a long time. I need/want to find someone new that fulfills my needs, and it will NEVER be you".
OR
"Tell him I am single again and "ON THE MARKET"
OR
"I just want some "FUN". There are people out there that want to *#$@ me, and since we are no longer together why shouldn't I have some "fun". I am not going to be a maid this Summer".
i didn't get any of this. all i got was .. "for the 100th time, there is no woman .. there are no women .. there is no man .. and there are no animals. this is not who i am. never have, never will. this is the last time i'm addressing this question because it doesn't deserve an answer".
but when i eluded to him possibly having an affair, he'd still assure me that there wasn't anybody.
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Your job is to turn of a HUGE "Truth Fan" and blow away the "fog" and see where the chips fall.
and how do you do that? i track the cell phone and there are the occasional incoming calls (can't tell who) but they are not frequent, nor are they long calls. he doesn't call anybody but i don't track his home or work phone log.
i read some of allen a's posts from the past and i have to say .. wow. i didn't know that there were men out there who were so anti-affairs. i applaude you, allen a. i've always been told that i couldn't stop a man from straying and that it was part of the male mind. it didn't matter how pretty, sexy, good in bed .. whatever a woman was. monogamy was a joke.
i for one, believe in monogamy in a relationship. if you want to stray, then stay away from me. huge dealbreaker.
