She tells me that two weeks ago when I was talking to her about things (my apologies, etc.) she was starting to think that maybe I had changed and was thinking about things. She then said that it’s clear that I haven’t changed
reads to me as if she is playing you against yourself. Do this its wrong, do it the opposite it wrong also. lose-lose situation. and all the while you are thinking "This is a critical time where I must be consistent in everything I do with her." She is keeping your head spinning and confused.
Sir, I don't think she cares about anything other then herself. 9 months and the biggest concern is selling the house? not keeping it.
You do realize once the house is sold it is going to make the divorce a whole lot easier. No big asset/debt to negotiate. quick and easy no need for a lawyer. just sign the paper and we are done.
just something to think about. either one of you have a lot more than the other in retirement savings?