Susan - I told my H that I didn't want to hurt him anymore so I would look for a lawyer, but that wasn't what I wanted - that I wanted to work on the M. I said I didn't want the old M either but I thought we owed it to ourselves to see if we could make things better and then if not we'd at least know we gave it our all.
A month later and I am seeing some real movement from him. Dare I say, he even seems happy to be around me!
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.